
In today’s reflection verse from the Gospel of Luke, Jesus tells us: “The measure you measure out is the measure you will be given.” Another way of putting this is “the air you breathe out is the air you will re-inhale.” If that’s true, Fr. Ron Rolheiser writes that it would explain many things, though not necessarily to our liking. Fr. Rolheiser says we are perennially caught up in pettiness, jealousy, and a lack of forgiveness. Why are we inhaling so much bitter air? Perhaps it has to do with the air we’re breathing out. What are we breathing out? Mary Jo Leddy, in her excellent book “Radical Gratitude,” claims that one of the great principles innate within reality itself is this: “The air you breathe into the universe is the air that it will breathe back, and if your energy is right, it will renew itself even as you give it away.” We’d like, of course, to think that we’re breathing out the air of gratitude, generosity, forgiveness, honesty, blessing, self-effacement, joy, and delight. We’d also like to believe that we are breathing out the air of concern for the poor, the suffering, the unattractive, the bothersome. And, we’d like to think too that we’re big-hearted people, breathing out understanding and reconciliation. Would it be nice if that was the true reality of our lives? The real air we’re breathing out is fraught with self-interest, jealousy, competitiveness, pettiness, fear, and less-than-full honesty. And Jesus takes this even further when he adds: “To those who have much, even more, will be given; and from those who have little, even what they have will be taken away.” That sounds so unfair; the innate cruelty of nature and the survival of the fittest applied to the gospels. But Jesus is only challenging the reality of our humanness and inability to be true love, agape love to others. To the big of heart, who breathe out what’s large and honest and full of blessing, the world will return a hundredfold in kind, honesty and blessing that swells the heart even more. Conversely to the miserly of heart and dishonesty of spirit, the world will give back too in kind, pettiness, and lies that shrink the heart still further. That’s the deep mystery at the center of the universe: The air we breathe out into the world is the air we will re-inhale.